I have an issue with my relationship and I need a hand. Can someone give me anytype of help?

I new this guy for almost 2 yrs and I just started going out and we have been together for almost 4 months. But we argue and fight alot and we break up and he still kisses me and hugs me I actually think its better when were broken up cause he shows more attention. But then when we get back together its a little attention but more arguing. So I just dropped him and Im confused. But when we had it was like he'll *** and then leave me there and I didnt get pleasures just him but that really doesnt matter I just feel used and I really love him he tells me that he loves me to but he's just an (what ever). So I read a tex from his friend that they were writing to eachother and he told his friend that (Oh I just want to f@#@ her, but then I dont want to tell her to leave). And I confronted him about it and he said that thats how him and his friends play ( i guess) but it hurts cause i think diffrent for him now but i want him and he said he does but what do I need to do to see his real side or what should I do??